Christmas for the Homeless

Last Tuesday night was filled with cheer, good food, and presents for the homeless. Everyone, including the homeless was in a good mood this time of year. Even though they may live under a bridge in the freezing cold or sleep on a pew in a church to get out of the weather, everyone was happy. One of the homeless was giving out Christmas cards to all of the volunteers and mentioning, by the way, he could use a little change. Even Homeless Eric got in the spirit of Christmas by helping wash the pots and pans. That was a first. All of the volunteers were happy as well. Many enjoy volunteering this time of the year by bringing their children and spending time with the less fortunate to make them appreciate what they have as a family.

Tonight we served 149 meals with the assistance of 32 volunteers. Thanks to everyone who helped wrap all the clothes and gift cards for the homeless. If you happen to go to Liquid Highway downtown and see a lot of homeless people, it is because each of them received a gift card for $5.00.

Merry Christmas!
~Marc

Christmas Gifts

Food For Life is collecting the following items for Christmas presents for the homeless: L or XL mens coats , warm blankets, gloves, warm socks, toothbrushes, candy bars, McDonalds gift cards. Items should be clean! Please do NOT donate: women's coats, adult clothing, childrens clothing, and childrens coats. These are not needed at this time. Drop off items at Streetside catering by this Sunday please! We will be giving them out next Tuesday night.

Also, we are accepting cash donations to purchase the gift cards for food. Since our numbers have increased in the last month, we expect to have a big demand next week. Thanks to everyone that supports Food for Life with your service, money, and prayers.

Food for Life Canceled for Tonight, November 30.

Food for Life is canceled due to Paul and Bonnie's work and Charity being sick. We will be back up and running next week.
Charity

Thanksgiving, A Time of Giving and Thanks!

Thanksgiving is a time that so many people sit down and try to think of ways that they can give to others. This is especially important to families. It is a great time of year for parents to teach their children the importance of giving to those in need as they consider all of the blessings in their own lives. Some people give to orphans and foster children, others reach out to single moms or widows, and others desire to lend a helping hand to the homeless. A question I am sure we all want to ask ourselves during this time of year is this, "How can I truly help in a lasting way, and not unintentionally hurt?"
Scripture talks about the importance of giving materially to those in need as an act of grace. We are told to make sure to reach out with a heart of generosity in the name of Jesus as if we were serving Him personally. Those acts of grace are so important, but what a difference we could make for the long-term if we used those acts of grace as a means to build a relationship, make a connection with the people in need. What a true act of grace it would be if that plate of food that we served led to a conversation, that conversation led to the sharing prayer requests, that sharing led to the joining together to pray, and that prayer was the beginning of a friendship. What a difference that would make!!!
There are so many churches and so many people at Thanksgiving time that do acts of generosity to the homeless but never make an effort any other time of year. Because of this, it is easy for the homeless to disconnect with the people who are giving to them. The homeless person could leave the facility with a full belly, a warm coat, and a heavy heart.
This Thanksgiving, as we think of the things that we are most thankful for, such as our salvation and our family and friends, let's remember that what makes us blessed most of all is not the clothes we wear or the beds that we sleep in, but our relationships. Relationships with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and with others who truly care about us are the things we are most thankful for, and these relationships are the things that enable us to flourish in our lives. The homeless community is no different. This Thanksgiving, let us give with the same heart of generosity with which we give every year, but let us give the two greatest gifts we can offer, the gospel and our friendship.
~Charity

Lawlessness

I could talk about the constant verbal and physical abuse that some experienced last Tuesday night. But that could lead to the conclusion that this type of lawlessness was representative of the homeless community, which it is not. Sure we have times when there are disagreements between individuals, but it is not something that can not be resolved. I am reminded that this lawlessness is every where. My next door neighbor was robbed in her garage when she got home from work. I did not need to go downtown. I could have looked out the window for a lesson in lawlessness. Just watch the news on TV for another look at our society. The homeless are constantly on guard but we are not. They know for a fact that some resolve their differences with violence. We think everyone is basically a good person and we think it will never happen to us. But it does. The Bible teaches us that we are not good but bad. It is our nature so why would anyone be surprised that some would act up downtown. They act up everywhere. Laws can not change people’s hearts, only God can. That is why we go downtown. Not to feel good after feeding the homeless in a sterile environment. But to go downtown and preach the gospel which is only thing that will change a heart of a homeless person or a volunteer.
~Marc

Problems with Working

It is very difficult for most of the homeless to obtain any type of employment. Too many prospective employers want an address and home phone number which none have. So some of the choices available is working as a day laborer, usually through a company downtown, or looking for homes that they can do some yard work. Since most are not covered by any labor laws many are cheated out of their wages one way or another. At least, that is what I hear from most, although, I know there are two sides to every story.

Paul helps many out by hiring some to wash dishes at Streetside. This helps some to move up to a motel room, at least temporarily, but some will work and continue to stay on the street by choice. It is a real challenge to hire a homeless person because none have transportation which means providing a taxi service, which usually falls on one of the Streetside employees. Many don’t mind for a short period of time but it can be difficult if they are really busy. But if someone doesn’t provide that service, then you can be sure they can not be dependable even on good day.

Last Tuesday night a couple of the homeless had come up with a good idea to make some money. They decided to be street entertainers. According to them they had even acquired the proper permit from the city. So they started their enterprise by providing entertainment with the meal. They were very good, but at first the audience seemed to only focus on eating. But after playing a few songs, many did give them an ovation, although it was not standing.

So if you see them performing on the street maybe you could give them a couple of dollars. It is still work and they are providing a service that deserves some reward.
~Marc

Hungry Folks

We served 133 meals last Tuesday. I can’t remember serving this many meals in the past, other than Thanksgiving two years ago. It seems more and more people are in need. Fortunately, we continue to receive support from some wonderful volunteers. Not only those who show up, but some who prepare food in advance for us. One of our volunteers recently prepared meat loaf for over 100 meals. We added some chicken and vegetables with ice cream for dessert for a meal. Everyone said it was great. One individual told me, as he was leaving, that he had never had this much food at one time. He said that it was especially good for him because he had been hungry all day. We use food to make connections with people. If we can show some compassion for a hungry person then we have the opportunity to present the Gospel to all who have ears to hear.
~Marc

Change of Clothes

What do you do when your clothes are dirty? He is a black man who looks like he just stepped out of a time machine from the sixties. He has a large afro with an equally large and long beard. I saw him many times in college either debating politics or demonstrating against the establishment. It was not actually him but maybe a clone that could have ended up on the street and never changed or probably more likely would have ended up in suburbia with a wife and nice clean children. But that was not him.

I would like to take his picture but he does’t want me to. So I don’t. I know his pant and shirt size by heart because every week he wants a change of clothes. Washing is out of the question on the street but changing into clean clothes works. Usually he asks for a hygiene kit which is not always available. Last week we looked around and did find some deodorant, hand lotion which had good smell, toothbrush and toothpaste. He was set for another week. He is not the only one who comes in each week asking for clothes, but he is the most consistent. He does not come for the preaching or the food. He stays by himself and only appears when you got the goods. I wonder what kind of stories he could tell. I know he appreciates the help but he wants to be left along.

Last Tuesday we served 85 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. Dan preached the message which was well received by everyone. Most come for the meal but there is a core group that wants to hear the Word. That is why we are downtown. To provide not only physical but more importantly spiritual help in the lives of those who are poor in spirit.
~Marc

Moving

Moving can create a lot of stress. There are so many problems to deal with such as giving up a place that you have become used to, as well, as the people that you have bonded with over the years. Then there is the problem of finding a new place. Of course, you look for location, location, and location. Other things matter, but that is primary what you would look for. Then there is the stress trying to find out where things are located and how to get around. I have experienced this more times than I would have liked in my life. But there is some satisfaction and relief when you find the right place. You usually want to show it to someone. It is no different for the homeless. They experience all the same emotions changing locations.

We had an opportunity to talk to a homeless who had not been in Greenville for years. This person had moved on to better things only to return. Things don’t always work out like you expect them. Finding a safe place to sleep in Greenville had been the first priority, but it had taken longer than expected. The stress was evident each week as this person looked around for a safe place to sleep and finding out how to get around in Greenville again. Things had changed. Then last week we were informed that the perfect place had been found. In fact, we just had to go with this person that night to look it over. It was downtown next to a highway but it did seem secluded. There were very thick trees with an opening in the middle. From the outside, you would not even notice there was an open space in the middle and it was downtown which met the location requirement. This person explained that in the morning there were birds in the trees to sing and it just seems so peaceful. Never mind that there is a lot of noise from the traffic. It was the perfect place. I felt like I was attending a house warming party. So naturally we presented a small gift for the new home.
~Marc

Big Crowd

None of us are sure of the numbers that will turn out on each Tuesday night. That means we come downtown not knowing how many homeless or volunteers will show up. Sometimes we get more than we can handle and other times we wonder where everyone has gone. Is there something happening on the street that is more appealing or is there something on the tube tonight? But this Tuesday everyone showed up. We had a capacity crowd from the street and local volunteers. There were so many volunteers that Paul had to conduct the volunteer prayer, before the service, in the hallway instead of the kitchen which is a much smaller area. But we consider this a blessing because many had the opportunity to minister to folks who are in need.

The total count for the night was close to 150 individuals. There were over a 100 plates served and many more prepared for take out. Many of the volunteers came from North Greenville University, Evangelical Institute, and East North Street Baptist along with our regular volunteers that show up every week. These numbers give everyone many opportunities to share the Gospel.
~Marc

Hope

A riddle. You can’t see me. You choose where to put me. You need me as much or more than food. Without me you would die. What am I?

That was Dan’s riddle for us last Tuesday night who was filling in for Paul. The answer is hope. He said that hope is for the soul like oxygen is for the body. It sustains us through difficult times. The Apostle Paul said in Romans 15:13 that “now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit”. True hope is putting the full weight of your trust in Jesus Alone. Only then will you have hope. This message was for all of us.

It was apparent that the homeless appreciated his message. One decided to give Dan a dollar. That is very unusual since most only will ask for a dollar. Dan tried to give it someone else he thought was in need, but that person declined. He told Dan “you got that dollar for preaching” Later he did find someone to bless with his wages. Thanks Dan for your serve to Food for Life.

We served 75 meals with the assistance of 22 volunteers. Everyone was fairly calm, with one exception. One individual, sporting a golf club, threatened to tee off on another homeless person in the food line. Fortunately, he left before there was any serious confrontation.
~Marc

Observation

Last week on Tuesday, I was talking with a volunteer that has not been downtown in a couple of years. That thing that really surprised him was the change in the demographices of the poor and homeless. Now the group is much younger which includes women (some even pregnant). He commented that when he was volunteering a few years ago that most of the homeless were middle age men. They consistently showed up every week and for the most part listened attentively to the preaching and were calm while eating their food. Now some become angry easily when being served regardless how patient the volunteers are. Usually they want specific food or two plates instead of one and can not understand why they can’t get what they want. We try to set some rules to make sure everyone gets something to eat. It is a different group to some degree and some are definitely not happy.

As I write this observation, I wonder how I would act if I was in their circumstances. I probably would be worse. We all expect things to go right for us and when they don’t we look for someone to blame. However, if the truth be known, we are responsible for many things that happen to us and it is hard to accept responsibility. So what is the answer? The same as it has always been. We need to be transformed by the Holy Spirit. That is what fuels us to go down every Tuesday and fellowship with the poor and homeless regardless of their behavior.

Last week we served 100 meals with the assistance of 24 volunteers.
~Marc

Lesson Learned?

We get many requests from the homeless each week. I know there are a lot of needs if you are living on the street but cash is usually at the top of the agenda. The reasons given are mostly for a bus ticket or for some breakfast for the next day. Obviously some of the requests are legitimate and some are not. The key is making that determination which is difficult. Lately I have been thinking that if the requests are every week then you know something else is going on. Finally I decided that I would follow the house rules and not give out any money for any reason. If someone needed something, I would purchase it for them then there would be no question in my mind whether it was a legitimate or not.

If you spend any time downtown with the homeless, you can expect to run into them at other times during the week. I was going in to a store the other day and sure enough there was a homeless guy out front that I had seen downtown. It appeared that the manager of the store was having a few words with him about loitering. I knew he would recognize me so I waved at him as I entered the store. I kept thinking while shopping that I probably would see him later. Sure enough he was there when I left the store and wanted to talk to me. It seems he needed something to eat and wondered if I had a few dollars to spare. My new rule was not to give money but to purchase what was needed to make sure the request was legitimate. However, I broke my own rule and gave him all the money I had, which was not much. I really wanted to go home.

The next Tuesday night I saw this individual and asked him what he used the money for that I had given him. His answer was “I have to be honest; I bought a can of beer”. That was not what I wanted to hear. Obviously, rules should not be broken if I really want to help someone. In this case I only contributed to his addiction and I hurt him.
~Marc

Is It the Church's Job to Alleviate Poverty?

We recently began a book study with the volunteers from Food for Life in which we are studying the book, "When Helping Hurts, How to Alleviate Poverty Without Hurting the Poor and Yourself," by Corbett and Fikkert. We will be continuing the study through the end of September. During this time that we are reading the book and considering its teachings, we are asking ourselves the age old question, "Is it the church's job to alleviate poverty?"

Well, such a question can cause all kinds of thoughts to rattle around in the mind of a Christian. Ultimately, we all know that God alone is equipped and able to truly alleviate poverty. So the answer to that question ultimately is, "No, it is God's job." However, did God not call believers over and over again to submit themselves to be the instruments through which He cares for the poor? The echoing answer to that question is, "Yes, yes, yes!"

Those who have traveled throughout the world know that poverty in the U.S. looks very different than poverty in many other countries. However, Scripture is clear that God calls believers to be involved in ministering in the community in which they live, specifically to the poor, widows, and orphans. Well, there is a growing ferver for taking care of the orphans. Adoptions are taking place all around our communities. As well, in most cases widows are taken care of by their own families. However there seems to be a lack of passion in many cases when it comes to taking care of the poor. Or could it be that there is a lack of understanding as to what that will have to look like here in the "Land of Opportunity"?

Most believers understand the story of the Good Samaritan, and would gladly do the same, if by some random chance they saw a person beat, wounded, and in need of clothes on the side of the road, they would not pass him by but would lend a helping hand. However, most of the poor among us are not going to be in such obvious need before our very eyes and in so directly in our path that we trip over them.
So to the church here in the U.S., what does helping those who are living in poverty really look like? One might be tempted to even say or at least think, there is opportunity everywhere, if they are poor, it is their own fault. So then we must ask ourselves the question, is it the job of the believer to pick and choose who they should help? Do we have the privelege of making judgements about who "deserves" our help and who doesn't?

I propose to you that there are two chategories into which most people living in poverty in the U.S. will fall. One chategory includes the individual that is poor due to no fault of their own, for example the widow, the orphan, or the abused spouse that has been abandoned with little financial resources. The second chategory includes those who are experiencing poverty due to the results of their own sin, for example those who are lazy, irresponsible, trapped by additctions, etc. Is it the church's job to be instruments of mercy to both chategories of poverty, or do we get to differientiate which chategory each poor person falls into and then decide who deserves our help? And then when that determination has been made, is it going to be as easy as helping the Good Samaritan, a sacrifice that only involved about one day or so of service and financial assistance. Wouldn't it be easy if we could do random acts of kindness that only took one day of our time, energy, emotion, and financial resources and feel that our job was done...we had accomplished helping the poor as the Scripture says.

I propose that the answer to the question, should we be willing to help the poor in both chategories according to Scripture is most assuredly, "Yes!" The difference will be in how we help. There are individuals out there that only need a little financial assistiance, a job, or a home and their lives will be improved forever. However, those who are poor due to their own sin need help as well, but that help must come in the form of relationship. The sacrifice is much greater when a Christian answers the call to help the poor individual in this situation, because it is not just a one-time act of sacrifice, it is a lifetime of building a relationship that with God's power will change that person's life and alleviate poverty. That is the call that God delivers to the believer through Scripture, "Come and share your life, Christian, to be an instrument of mercy to the poor?" Will you answer the call?
~Charity

Reconciliation

He can be a little intimating, especially if he is under the influence. I always have to remind myself that God loves him and we should too. To have a private conversation is difficult but tonight he wanted to talk to me about his situation. He said he was tired of living this way. Last month he was fined for a nusiance charge which took about half of his disability check and now he was here trying to get some food. He said alcohol had him by the throat and demonstrated it by grabbing his throat. He said he knows he should trust in Jesus and I reminded him that he would also have to repent. I explained that it was more than just going a different direction but it was a change in desires. And the only way to accomplish that is by the Holy Spirit. Then you will have different desires and different friends. I told him how God has changed Paul in so many ways and immediately tears started rolling down his cheek and he said “I can’t let anyone see me like this”. As he wiped the tears away, another homeless showed up and started talking to him and his demeanor changed and he regained control of emotions. Something happened in that moment that turned his attention away from the spirit to the world. It was time to eat.

Paul is currently teaching a Bible study for the volunteers based on a book titled When Helping Hurts (short title) by Steve Corbett and Brian Fikkert. This discusses homelessness and poverty and how to alleviate them. To understand how to do that we have to understand what the universal problem is for them and us. The bottom line is reconciliation. Since the fall we are all separated from God. Reconciliation means to put things back into the right relationship again. That can only be accomplished through Jesus Christ. “The goal is to restore people (homeless or not) to a full expression of humanness to being what God created us all to be, people who glorify God by living in right relationship with God, with self, with others, and with the rest of creation” (page 78). This is a necessary first step to help others come out of poverty and addiction.

I would like to give a special thanks to all the GE employees who held a fund raiser last Friday night at Star Lanes Bowling. The money raised will be donated to Food for Life and another worthy charity. I was surprised how many people showed up for this event and it looked like everyone had a good time. Their goal was to raise $1,500.of which some of the funds will be used to purchase kitchen equipment for Triune Mercy Center. We are grateful for all of the volunteers who support Food for Life.
~Marc

Packed House

When Paul assembled all the volunteers in the kitchen for prayer, it was packed. There were so many volunteers that they flowed out into the hall. Closing the door for privacy was not an option tonight. Most were youth and adults from Simpsonville First Baptist Church and East North Street Baptist Church. It is always a pleasure to have local youth come out and assist us in ministering to the homeless

After the preaching, many of the youth set up a table of pictures as a way of sharing the gospel with the homeless. For instance, they asked them to pick out photographs that reflected their current situation and their interpretation of God. These questions lead to further discussions to consider. Even though many of the youth were very young, they were not intimidated dealing with the homeless.

In addition to unusual amount of volunteers, we had a packed house of homeless who had come to get out of the heat. We served 110 meals with the assistance of 32 volunteers.
~Marc

Regulars

Even though he is a large man, most would not know he was in the room because of his quiet nature. He usually comes in and heads for the back of the room and stays mostly to himself. But tonight he seemed a little agitated. I know him by name because he has been around since the start of Paul’s ministry. Usually he will acknowledge me by a few words and go about his business of getting some food. I remember years ago, I asked him if he believed in God and his response was “only a fool wouldn’t”. However, further discussions at that time revealed that he didn’t believe in the deity of Christ.

He walked up to me and placed a little book in the palm of my hand. The title was “Love”. I flipped through the pages and it appeared to be poems. On the inside cover I noticed there was a list of names he had written. I asked him about the names and he said the first one below his was his sister whom he has not seen for 22 years. The second one was his brother. I couldn’t read his shaky hand writing so asked him his brother’s name. He told me and then asked if he had spelled it correctly. Before I could ask about the other name he abruptly went in the room where Paul was preaching. I learned later that he caused a few problems although none that Paul could not handle. It was like he was a different person tonight.

One of our other regulars proudly showed me a letter from a local college that accepted him for the fall semester. As I looked at the letter I wondered about the address since he changes addresses often. He told us how the college had arranged for a loan from the Department of Education to be repaid later when he gets a job. He hoped to receive an Associates Degree as a paralegal. Later as we gave him a ride to a friend’s house, he said that most of the homeless spend too much time listening to their thoughts like “you will always be homeless” or “you will never get a job”, but he says he ignores those thoughts and just keeps on trying. He still has hope for the future.

Tonight, we served 92 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. It seems we are getting more people as the temperature rises. A cool auditorium for a few hours is better than hanging out on the street in the sweltering heat.
~Marc

Housing Problems

I watched him limp toward the bridge late Tuesday night. He was fighting the pain as he leaned heavily on a homemade walking stick. The stick was really a substitute for a crutch but did not seem to give much relief. I looked at the under side of the bridge and marveled at the size of the huge concrete pillars. I had driven across this bridge many times but did not fully realize how huge it really was. His home was under the bridge along with many others. It looked as if it could house a small city. Cool in the summer but probably not very warm in the winter. But it was some place to get out of the rain and stay dry. He had waited a long time to arrange his ride from Triune Mercy Center.

Paul had been talking to a homeless lady who was very depressed. She is pregnant and to make matters worse, her fiancée had hit her that day. She felt like giving up because no one seems to care. She said she tries to work so she can pool her money with his so they can get a room each night. That can be difficult because some times she works 12 hours but only gets paid for 3 hours. Many of the homeless are taken advantage of as day labors. She is determined to keep her boy when it is born but knows to do this she must have a permanent place to live. Right now that looks unlikely. Paul kept asking her how he can help but she just shakes her head. He offers to put her in a room tonight but she thinks there are others who need help too. Paul assures her that he can help only one person at a time and right now he wants to help her.

There are all kinds of stories and difficult situations on the street. Although we try to meet many of the physical needs, we are convinced that the best thing we can do is present the gospel and pray for all their needs. Nothing is impossible with God.
~Marc

Give and Take

The homeless have feelings too. Last Tuesday night one of the homeless shared with us that his best buddy died. Through his tears he related how they stuck together by sharing a “bunker” (sleeping quarters) and if the truth be known, also a bottle. I could tell that he had a touch of the same stuff when he came in. We talked and Paul shared with him that this should be a wake up call. The same thing could happen to him. Therefore, he should be ready. But I couldn’t see in his eyes any connection with him and the fate of his long lost buddy. He seemed oblivious to the obvious that Paul was trying to impress upon him. I think he just wanted some sympathy from someone who cared about him. But to change his life style, he was not ready for that.

Some of the homeless panhandle each Tuesday night among the volunteers. One finally was noticed by the pastor of the church and was banned for three months from entering the premises. She told one of the volunteers that she has to use parenting skills as much as skills learned in seminary to deal with the homeless. We certainly can relate with that.

One thing I have learned with dealing with the homeless is that many want to help. Of course, they can not come into the kitchen and start cooking (some have tried). That area is strictly for volunteers. However, they are welcome to help clean up which is a necessary job that most of the volunteers shy away from. So many times I try to use anyone that offers to help. It helps me and I thinks gives them a sense of accomplishment even if it is just sweeping the floor or taking out the trash. Most of these individuals never ask for anything other than to help out. Why not allow them to contribute each Tuesday night.

So we see each Tuesday some that give and others who take. The homeless are no different from the rest of society. I think that is why we can’t stereotype the homeless as lazy or alcoholics, even though some are, because we can see the same characteristics in our families, friends, and coworkers. The homeless are just people. They are all different. But one thing they have in common is a need for redemption from sin. Of course, that is why we go down each Tuesday night to share the good news for us and them.
~Marc

Medical Needs

I have mentioned many times about the various needs of the homeless. Some are life threatening and others are not. One of the individuals that assist them with their life threatening needs is a nurse that is assigned or loaned to Triune from St. Francis Hospital. I got to talk to her last Tuesday night.

She outlined her responsibilities for minor things like taking blood pressure to major things that revolve around medications that are necessary to maintain their health mostly for diabetics or high blood pressure. The homeless can go to the emergency room for a health assessment and get their prescription, but getting it filled is another thing. Since most don’t have the money they rely on her to help them cut through the red tape and get it filled.

Currently, the nurse told me that they have to go to one agency to be certified as homeless. This agency will issue a letter to that effect which they must be taken to another agency to get the prescription. That is a lot of walking or they need a bus pass to get from one place to another. After that is accomplished, then there is the challenge for them to keep up with the prescription and take it as directed. Since they don’t necessarily have a place to stay, it is not uncommon for them to lose it within day on street. Then there is the problem if they are incarcerated. Any kind of prescribed drugs are taken away from the homeless, so when they get out they have to start all over to receive the necessary prescriptions. Even though it is challenging for her, it is obvious she loves her job because she genuinely cares about the people she is helping each day. All of us at Food for Life salute her for her unselfish service and dedication to the most vulnerable in society.

This week most of the requested needs ranged from tooth ache medicine to a roll of toilet paper. Although not life threatening, I guess both requests are very important to that one individual.

We had a good crowd this week. We served 65 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers.
~Marc

It is Sad

It is sad to witness the condition of many who cannot resist the devastating effect of stimulants on their body and spirit. Also, it is sad when it not only affects them but also others. The purpose each Tuesday night is to share the gospel and love on others. But when someone can’t stand up and wants to stumble in while Paul is preaching, you know things could go very wrong.

That is what happened this week. When I saw him I knew there would be trouble. But I thought to myself, maybe not this time. But I should not have ignored the signs of trouble. I wasn’t in the room but I could see through the window. Everyone was standing up in the corner and two men were yelling at each other. Many immediately took control and ushered both from the room. Unfortunately, they continued their disagreement on the side walk. One hit the other and he fell in the street even though others were trying to break up the fight. I knew at that point that I had to call 911.

Two patrol cars showed up and everyone scattered. Some took off across the street and others that were helping to break up the fight went back into the building for the rest of the sermon. No one was arrested and everyone calmed down. It was a good outcome to a very tense situation. I guess many of the homeless experience this many times each week but we don’t deal with this very often. Most are very respectful and some even grateful for the food and fellowship. But our desire is to reach everyone so we can not turn some away just because there might be trouble.
~Marc

God's Invisible Attributes

It was hot last night and all of the homeless couldn't wait to get inside to feel the cool air conditioning. A large container of ice water was appreciated by everyone. Usually in this kind of weather we see hot tempers as well, but this week everyone seemed to be content to just "cool it". The weather continued to go from one extreme to another. A thunder storm moved in with heavy rain and lighting. I wondered if we would lose electricity before we could finish cooking the dinner. Fortunately that did not happen until everyone had finished eating. And by then the sun had come out and there was enough light for everyone to finish their meal. As everyone was leaving there was a beautiful rainbow in the sky. Most did’t notice but some did and commented that they were amazed at the power and the beauty of God. I thought about Romans 1:19-20. “For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse.” God was reminding everyone of His existence.

This week we served 90 hot meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. Many were the GE employees. No one could miss them with their green company shirts, although one individual only had his shirt hanging around his neck. I guess he fulfilled the requirement for company attire.
~Marc

What I Have Learned

The following is the testimony that I gave last Sunday at North Hills Community Church. Marc asked me to put it on the blog this week. ~Charity Blumer

When I first started going to Food for Life, I was not even dating my husband. I had met him and thought that it sounded like a great ministry, so I started volunteering.

I believed in the church’s responsibility to care for the poor, but I thought that would look like me giving them money or items that they needed and maybe serving a meal at a place like Food for Life. At first, everyone who volunteers, including myself, starts to wonder what makes a person live a lifestyle of homelessness, since many of them have been coming to Food for Life for years. I quickly drew some conclusions about them, like this one is a drug addict, this one is a bad alcoholic, this one can’t read therefore can’t get a job. I observed their lifestyle choices, the drugs, alcohol, prostitution, immorality and general disregard for marriage, and without premeditating to do it, that is how I defined them when I thought of them. It was how I made sense out of why they are the way they are.

It has taken me all the way until this year to alter my thinking, after really learning some things about my own sin nature and also getting to know some of them better, and re-evaluating my whole way of thinking about how to help the poor and needy. I started getting to know their stories, and I discovered that there isn’t just one reason that they are the way they are. They aren’t homeless just because they are drug addicts, alcoholics, prostitutes, or lazy. There are many layers that explain why they are living this sad lifestyle.

And the thing that I have been struck with the most is that they really aren’t that different from me. There was a time when I would have said, “I could never be homeless, I would rather die than spend one night on the street, and I would do anything to make sure that I never had to.” But I would have spoken out of ignorance. As I have considered their histories, I have realized that most of them have experienced more abuse, neglect, and hardship than I can even comprehend. If I had experienced the kinds of things that most of them have, I would be just like they are.

What makes me different from them really has nothing to do with me. I was born into a different life, with wonderful parents and great opportunities and the grace of God all around me. It was a gift that had nothing to do with me.

So now when I look at them I don’t think, “How could you let yourself live this life,” I simply feel overwhelmed with compassion, and even though I know that for many of them it is going to take a Holy Spirit miracle for their lives to change, I hope and pray that I get to see the miracle take place.

GE Day

Volunteers from General Electric came in force last night. They were all in green company shirts filling every space in the kitchen. Many of the homeless had not seen them before and one asked me if it was St Patrick’s Day which I replied that it was just GE day. It is good to have volunteers but it can be difficult to coordinate that many new volunteers. But the food was prepared on time although the banana pudding was made without the pudding but no one seemed to notice.

Zak preached for Paul tonight. He brought a powerful message and didn’t seem to be distracted by the comings and goings of people in the room. That can be difficult at times unless you stay focused on the message. There were a few disturbances but most were resolved although one individual was sent packing.

As usual there were many requests such as rides every where, money, socks, shirts, gasoline, electric bills to be paid, medication, and two stamped envelopes. One individual wanted us to take some legal action against the police for harassment. We did as much as we could for the resources available.

We had a smaller crowd last night. We served 68 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers.
~Marc

What's His Story?

I have had many volunteers say to me “what’s his story”. What they mean is why is he homeless or what happened to him that resulted in his situation. Of course there is no one answer. We all end up in our current situations because of the influence of others and our own personal decisions. But most of the time nothing turns out like you would expect it. Most would not choose homelessness. Although there are a few that has learned to live with it and probably would not give up this life style. Many have had terrible family situations more varied than I have time or space to write about. Then there are many that just make bad choices i.e. drinking, drugs, or crime to name a few. Then it can be a combination of both problems. All of this can devastate anyone and the street is the result.

Many of the volunteers are reading a book titled “When Helping Hurts” (short title). The authors premise is that the poor is a result of brokenness of foundational relationships. Everyone was created to live in a right relationship with God, self, others, and the rest of creation. But the fall was a problem for everyone. So the first thing is to realize there is no difference between them (homeless) and us (volunteers). We all have the same problem. So when we say what’s his or her story, we could just as easily say what is our story.

Our story last Tuesday night included serving 68 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. We were blessed to have a group from East North Street Baptist Church. They jumped right in helping in the kitchen, serving, and spending time with the homeless. We are always grateful for active volunteers. There are always a lot of needs and no one person can possibly help everyone. ~Marc

Flying a Sign

I was in the bathroom last night at the Homeless Ministry and this guy came in singing:

It’s wonder I’m not a criminal. It’s wonder I’m not in jail. It’s wonder I’m not insane. I’ve got too much time on my hands.

I never heard the song but it’s a captivating tune that keeps rolling around in my head. I guess there are songs for any situation in life including the homeless.

Last night my friend Homeless Eric and some of the volunteers were talking about some of the different terms that the homeless use like “Flying a Sign”. Everyone knows what that is if they have seen anyone holding a sign asking for food or work (it really means give me some money). Eric said he has tried it few times but without much success. It seems he is too friendly and happy. A colleague told him he should look sad and hungry. Eric can look hungry but not sad. One of the volunteers said they had read about an individual that did that for a living. He put on some dirty clothes and drove his fancy car to crowded intersection and collected more money than he could make working. Of course, there are always draw backs on a good thing; it’s against the law. Panhandling can get you a fine of $250 and possibly jail if you have had a bad day and had not collected enough to pay the man. But as one volunteer said, “you do what you got to do” to survive.

Our numbers were down last night. We served 55 meals with the assistance of 12 volunteers. We had two first time volunteers who attend Heritage Bible Church and Brittney who is a returning volunteer after some time off for school. All of them have a real heart to see the homeless and volunteers transformed by the power of the God. We have fun every Tuesday night but no one losses sight of why we are there. It is for the Gospel.
~Marc

Donations Needed for Families

Thank you to everyone who recently donated to the woman in need. She is still in need of a dresser and a twin bed.
Also, we have two other families in need that we have been trying to reach out to through Food for Life. One is a couple who have had a difficult path but are trying to live for God now, as far as we can tell thus far. They just had a baby and have just moved into a new house and have very little. They have no beds, but they do have a crib. They need baby boy items and other various furniture.
There is also another lady that is a single mom who has been living with her sister and just got accepted for section 8 housing. She has absolutely nothing for her house. No furniture at all and no kitchen utensils, plates, shower curtains or rugs, etc.
We would love it if you all could look through any items you are not using and would be willing to donate and help us give to these people. It is a big help if you can also drop it off at the necessary locations or at least at Streetside. Paul and I have had our plates rather full with getting the items to the people; however if you cannot do that, we will make a way to pick it up.
Could you please pass it on to your churches as well!

Obviously please also pray for these people to have spiritual strength and the Holy Spirit power to do what is right.

Thank you all for your generosity.
Charity and Paul

Guest Blogger

This week Homeless Eric has agreed to be our guest blogger. He has been a part of this ministry from the very beginning and we all enjoy seeing him every week. I thought it would be interesting to get his view what is important to him. Thanks Eric for your willingness to share your thoughts.
~Marc

How easy it is for us to live just for me and mine and forget that there are others in need around us; even in the same city. Luke 6:38 says give and it shall be given. This is one of my favorite verses because this is the example Jesus gave everyone that would follow and believe in Him later. He gave His life for everyone that whosoever would trust in Him shall be saved. Apostle John said you'll know them by their love, if you have love for each other. The first and greatest commandment is to love the Lord our God with all our heart, mind, soul, and strength. And the second is to love your neighbor.

If you want to survive in this world trust in yourself and those who you have "connections" with. But if you really want to live in the destiny and abundant purposes and plans He already had for you before the foundations of the earth then seek His kingdom. Go and read Matthew 6:33 and follow it out everyday.

Thank you all for your time and selfless service on Tuesday including everyone that is a part of Food For Life!! Amen! Amen!

Seeking Him and His righteousness,
Eric

Serving

Rain, rain, and rain last night while unloading the food from the van. Most of the homeless are thankful for a dry place to settle in on a night like this. They spread out among the tables and watch us volunteers scurry around getting ready for the night. In and out of the room looking for stuff is the first order of business. Are the doors unlocked to supplies and ice machine? Do we have plates, forks coffee, tea, and do we have enough food even though we don’t know how many will show up. After sizing up the situation usually Bonnie will drive to the store for the needed supplies.

As the new volunteers show up we get a lot of questions like “what do I do”. Fortunately, we have a core group of volunteers that help every week and they know what to do. Basically it is shopping, chopping, washing, and mopping in addition to serving. Another group of volunteers minister to the homeless. They serve by spending time talking to them on an individual basis. Everyone has a story and a problem and some just need council, encouragement, and prayer.

After Paul shared the message, there were about 55 individuals lined up for the meal but by the night was over, we served 98 meals. Many go back for seconds and some get a plate to go. We served chicken and rice, beef and noodles, macaroni and cheese, bananas, topped off with chocolate peanut butter squares. Of course we had sweet tea to drink. Then most of the homeless are out the door for a smoke and then they head for their “cat hole” for the night.
~Marc

So Many Needs

I don’t know how the body can take so much abuse. One lady with her significant other showed up last night. They have been living in the woods for as long as we have been ministering downtown. She smokes and has bone cancer. Both are in and out of the hospital because they drink way too much, more than a normal body can stand. They wanted a change of clothes. But what they both need is a heart change because eternity seems real close.

There were so many other needs. Many needed gas, money for their utilities, medication, socks, shoes, rides to the bus station, and rides to where they are staying. Of course, there are many who ask for money although we very seldom give cash. Our ministry is limited in time and money but we try to meet as many needs as possible but sometimes we just tell them we can’t do anything tonight. That does not make them very happy because that person thinks his need is more important than anyone else.

One need we do provide for everyone is a hot meal. Tonight we served 89 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. We were fortunate because we just had enough food for everyone. We never want anyone to be turned away hungry.
~Marc

Homeless Family Life

Last night I had two separate homeless individuals describe their home life growing up and how it affected them. One believed that it is the reason he is homeless and leaving in an abandoned building with no education and no job. He believes that if he had had better parents things would have turned out better for him. He explained that in any family situation a child needs love and understanding. He did receive the love but he never received understanding. His father was not educated enough to take the time to give him an understanding or teaching him how to buy his first car, balance a checkbook, explain sex, or giving him proper direction. He said that his father would not even walk off the field with him, like the other Dads, after a football game. And his mother would’t even go to see him play. So to him understanding is the act of passing knowledge and spending quality time with your child. This he did not receive. Now he spends his time reading and writing about theology and talking with anyone who will listen to him about his latest revelation from God. He seems very bitter about his situation.

The other individual told me about listening to a talk show about the book of Revelation and he heard his real father call in with a question. He said he knew his voice immediately before he identified himself. He really did not know him growing up because he was not claimed as his child for many years. It seems that his mother had got involved with him even though she was already married and tried to pass him off as the child of her current husband. Things came out when his real father’s sisters convinced him to acknowledge own son. But he never spent any time with him until he was around 14 years old. I would say that his family was more dysfunctional than the other one but this individual did not think it caused him to be homeless. I am sure your family situation has a lot to do with how you turn out but many rise above difficult situations and others seem never get over how they were treated as a young child. So is it heredity or environment or a combination of the two that shapes our lives? I am sure both play a part.
~Marc

Count Them

Last night we were blessed to have East North Street Baptist Church members volunteering downtown. They worked very diligently serving food and cleaning up. Many spent time with the homeless witnessing. Some of the homeless responded that they were Christians and of course everyone in Greenville are Christians. Others were more honest and wanted more explanation of Christianity such the doctrine of the Trinity which is conversation that requires some preparation. It is surprising that many of the homeless read the Bible and know it better than Christians but they just have not accepted Christ as their personal Savior.

We had 4 individuals visiting last night but they were not volunteers. They actually worked for the Census Bureau and they were there to count the homeless. Each had a clip board and they were counting while everyone was eating. Not sure why it took 4 people to count and I am not sure who they were counting. Probably half of the people that come downtown are not homeless. They are poor and live in homes but they come to get a good meal. They would be counted at their home. So are we double counting?
~Marc

A Family

He used to come on a regular basis but lately it is only been now and then. I always recognize him from a distance by his infectious smile, even though, he is constantly searching the room like he is looking for someone. I guess on the street there are certain individuals that you want to avoid and others you want to find, especially if they have done you wrong. But I like to see him because he makes me smile and feel like neither of us have any problems.

He is white and his lady friend is black and they live in a tent. In the South at one time this kind of relationship would have been impossible even on the street. Fortunately now, those days have passed and most could care less. He once told me that he had given up on his relatives many years ago and the only one that might even talk to him was a sister. Once I tried to encourage him to contact her but he sighed and said it was too late. Even when his lady friend left him a few years ago, he would not consider contacting anyone. He has a family now and a place to live and just can not revisit the past.

We see many every week that have experienced pain and seek a new life on the street. In this economy there are those loosing their jobs and homes and could very well end up on the street. All of us are vulnerable and should be thankful to give a helping hand because one day we may need one too.

There was a large crowd tonight. When everyone lined up to eat, I counted 85 people but by the end of the night we had served over 100 hot meals. Thanks to all the volunteers who find joy in serving the homeless each week.
~Marc

Good Night?

Nothing unusual happened last night, which is good, everyone was orderly and if fact seemed to appreciate the food and the cold tea. The numbers started out real slow but by the time we served the meal there were over 85 people. If you count the volunteers eating and the plates to go, we served 110 meals.

My job last night was to keep the hall clear between the room where Paul was preaching and the kitchen. Many times individuals congregate in the hall and end up making so much noise that it competes with the preaching. So a little policing was in order. During this time I could hear Paul preaching inside and the volunteers in the kitchen singing hymns while they work. Everyone was having church.

One homeless individual was in rare form this week. He would be a nice guy if he would lose the booze. He spent his time trying volunteer in the kitchen and if you tried to talk to him he ended up crying. It seems that he just has to keep moving so he can forget his situation. At 50 years old, he probably realized a long time ago that his situation seems to be hopeless living under a bridge. Paul spent a lot of time with him but he doesn’t listen well. He just wants to keep moving.

Clean up went well because we had a lot of help. Many of the volunteers were regulars so they knew what to do. Usually there are a lot of questions but not tonight. There were a few people from GE and a good showing from The Evangelical Institute. We are grateful for all of volunteers who allow Paul to minister to the homeless each week.
~Marc

Shampoo and Locked Doors

This week a group of 9th graders from North Hills Community Church came down to volunteer. They did all the normal things that first time volunteers do like take pictures, work in the kitchen, serve food, and give out shampoo and conditioner. Well… most don’t give away shampoo and conditioner but everyone appreciated the gift. I wondered if any of the homeless would go in the bathroom and try some out. Tonight with their assistance, we served 70 meals.

What would be a minor for us can be a major for a homeless person. Case in point is a locked door, especially if behind that locked door is a sleeping bag owned by a homeless person. Many times the homeless will hide their valuables when they come in to eat so their stuff doesn’t get stolen. Tonight, this individual decided to use the room where the ice machine is located. Unfortunately, one of the volunteers decided to shut that door during the service not realizing that it would lock. The end result was a very upset homeless person. So what do you do? Naturally, I asked another homeless if he could “jimmy the lock” and within few seconds we were in the room. You do what you gotta do.

It is always great to see someone decide to leave the street. Tonight we helped Eric by purchasing a bus ticket to Ohio to live with relatives. Many homeless don’t have any family that is willing to help them for various reasons so the only assistance can be some type of program that may help temporarily but is never permanent. The real ticket to getting off the street permanently will depend on family who cares enough to give them another chance. Eric had an Uncle and an Aunt who loved him enough to give him that chance.
~Marc

Snow Day

Last Tuesday was a snow day. We were advised that the Salvation Army was opening their doors to all the homeless in the area to sleep over. Since they were also providing a meal, we decided to cancel Tuesday night at Triune Mercy Center. Hope everyone was safe and warm Tuesday night and we see everyone next week.
~Marc

15 Minutes of Fame

Some say that every one will experience at least 15 minutes of fame in their life. Most seem to be always seeking or expecting fame because they think they deserve it, and when and if they receive it, they always think that it is well deserved. But most who seek it or think they deserve it will only experience a manufactured fame that most would not confirm. That’s why I think it is interesting when some one, like a homeless person, receives that fame, even for 15 minutes, and is shocked to receive that kind of recognition. Maybe that is the only way to receive fame is by not seeking or expecting it. Certainly most would not think that real fame would be experienced by a homeless person who has an addiction to alcohol and has spent his whole life fighting the urge to drown his sorrows in a bottle, but it can happen.

Homeless Danny called me the other day from Charlotte. He had just once again completed detox and was in a half way house. He said that he was calling to tell me about something that happened to him that he never expected. He is attending a church that sponsored a 5 mile walk for the homeless. The walkers were encouraged to solicit sponsors that would contribute to the homeless for every mile they walked. The top money raisers would be recognized at a banquet for their efforts. Danny told me that walking 5 miles is nothing for a homeless person because that is what they do all day. So he decided to enter and seek donations from members of his church. It turns out that Danny and another student received the highest donations. When he was told that he would need to give a speech when he received his award at the banquet, he was petrified. But then he decided tell everyone about Jesus since He was homeless too. He told them how God was working in his life and what it meant to be homeless all his life. Excitedly, he told me that when he finished reading his speech and looked up, everyone was standing on their feet giving him a “standing ovation”. He said he could not believe it. So Danny got his 15 minutes of fame unexpectedly. I told him I was so excited for his accomplishment. After I hung up the telephone I prayed that God would use this to show him that he is important and not just another alcoholic who would continue to fight his addiction for the rest of his life. Will you join me in this prayer?
~Marc

Helping not Hurting

Hello. It has been a while since I have written, a long while. I missed Food for Life many times after the birth of our daughter, and over the past couple of months I have really been integrating it back into my life now that our little girl is not so little any more and my parents are so generously willing to watch her for me. My husband and I have been reading a book that we borrowed from my dad called, "When Helping Hurts, Alleviating Poverty without Hurting the Poor and Ourselves." We both have been struck by a few key concepts during the reading that we have done thus far.

One concept that I am struck with is the fact that it is so easy for us as ministers of the gospel and as volunteers to separate ourselves from the people that we claim to be serving. We say that we are doing these acts of service because we care and we want to help, yet so many times as Christians we mentally separate ourselves from the very people we want to help, putting us in two different categories, this is "us" and "they" are over there. The question is, can we really effectively help them with that mentality without hurting them? Will we ever be able to determine what their real needs are and what the root cause of their homelessness is if we won't befriend them, and I mean truly befriend them? Paul and I feel convicted that the most important thing that we can do for them is not serve them a meal and give them a blanket. It is to share the gospel through friendship. We have to ask ourselves, "Are we truly their friend?" Because friends spend time together, sharing their lives with each other as equals. Obviously, any time we reach out in friendship to someone who struggles with addictions and possibly involves themselves in criminal behavior, caution is in order, but just because we need to proceed with caution, does not mean that we do not proceed at all. It is striking to me how many people will volunteer in the kitchen and in the serving line, but they will not even speak to the homeless people, let alone pull up chair and share an extensive conversation. That is frightening to some. It is difficult sometimes to realize that the homeless are people just like us. They have a past with hurts, they have feelings, they have struggles, and they need Jesus. Sure, they have made some bad decisions, but haven't we all? It is so easy to think, "Ya, but my bad decisions are not as bad as theirs, and why haven't they learned from their mistakes yet." However, life is a journey for us all. We all make bad decisions, and we all repeat the same mistakes over and over again and feel stupid for doing it. The difference is, most of us can hide our mistakes so that the whole world doesn't know what they are. We can't help them until we see ourselves when we look at them.

Over the next few months as Paul and I read this book, pray over the concepts, and share these concepts with the volunteers, we will be writing about the ways that we have found to integrate the concepts and what we are learning about ourselves as well as the people that God has placed in our lives.

~Charity

Give and Take

We had a youth group from North Hills Community Church volunteer last Tuesday night. They were volunteering their time as a ministry project. Many of them already come downtown each week. They assisted others provide 75 hot meals for those in need. We are grateful for those young and old that has a heart to help the less fortunate.

In many ways the homeless are no different than others in society. There are those who are truly in need and verbally thank everyone for any assistance. Others, though, expect to receive what ever they want. They are takers. For instance, I noticed one individual who got some coffee and then took all the packets of sweet and low that was available for everyone. Others were thankful for the coffee on a cold night but there was no sweet and low.

Many had needs such as blankets, coats and especially socks. A pair of dry socks is important on the street. Fortunately, one of the volunteers brought in a good supply of all that was requested. After one individual received a pair of wool socks that he requested, he then wanted some boots size 11 ½. I thought, does he think this is Shoe Carnival. He had on a real nice pair of shoes. We try to meet every need we can regardless of their response. Obliviously, there are times when many take advantage of our generosity. But they are no different from others in society, they have need beyond the physical and that is a relationship with their Creator.
~Marc

The Real Problem

Suresh, from the Evangelical Institute of Greenville, preached for Paul last Tuesday night. Every week Paul reminds everyone that we are downtown for the Gospel. With that in mind, Suresh preached on the meaning of the Gospel.

He asked for a show of hands for those who had problems. Everyone responded. Like everyone, the homeless experience problems such as loneliness, addictions, need for shelter, and need for employment to name a few problems. But these problems are a symptom of a major problem in everyone’s life. The real problem is sin. Sin separates us from God and the only remedy is that it must be dealt with. We can not deal with it by our good works which we think will cover our sin and God will then accept us. There has to be a sacrifice or a shedding of blood to properly cover our sin and make us acceptable to God. Suresh read from Isaiah 59 and Roman 3 which describes sin and it's remedy. There has to be a Redeemer who is Jesus Christ. Suresh invited all to accept Jesus as their Savior and a number of individuals responded. Praise God.

While everyone was eating, Suresh entertained everyone by playing his Sitar. Everyone was delighted with the unusual sound.
~Marc

We Need a Singer

The homeless get restless when they line up to get their food and it is not ready. So to take their minds off their stomachs, we ask someone to sing, and of course, they better be good. Tonight that is exactly what happened and the unplanned singer was great. Many times we have to improvise to get the job done.

Tonight, we served 65 meals with the assistance of 14 volunteers.
~Marc

Our Volunteers

The volunteers are amazing... We seem to develop a comarade that none of us would have outside of the ministry. One volunteer told me last night that it is so cool to serve along side people from different backgrounds who just love hanging out with the homeless. He added that others don’t know what they are missing. From our desire to serve, we develop lasting friendships. Gordon, who has been coming about 3 months, filled in for Paul and provided everyone a powerful message. Another slipped me a very generous check for the ministry which we always need. That family supports us with their time and money. What a blessing.

It is always good to see volunteers bring new volunteers with them. Last night one lady brought a couple who jumped right in cutting and chopping in the kitchen and later working in the “dish pit” A job that not everyone wants to tackle.

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I can not leave out the homeless volunteers. “Frenchie” always loves to serve and then there was “Frog” who couldn’t wait to start cleaning up and carrying out the trash. He has not been well physically in the past, but tonight he was much better and had to strength to help out. Everyone volunteer is appreciated.
~Marc

Hard Night

It is easy to become complacent downtown not being aware that there can be some dangers with the people we serve. Because of this, Paul and Charity started the evening with a meeting with the volunteers in the kitchen. They reminded everyone to be cautious and stay in pairs, ladies should not walk out to their cars alone, and ladies should not become too involved with the opposite sex and be especially cautious with their children. Even though everyone is, for the most part, very friendly and appreciative, there are many who have sexual criminal backgrounds.

Later during Paul’s teaching we had an example of this type of behavior. One individual kept talking loudly with his neighbor and becoming unruly while Paul was teaching. Paul asked him to please be respectful and not talk while he was teaching. But he continued and finally Paul had to get some assistance to eject him from the premises. Later he came back and said he was either staying or we would have to call the police. So unfortunately, we followed his advice.

Regardless of the difficulties, many volunteers spent quality time with the homeless. We saw a lot of new faces which leads me to believe that things are getting worse financially for many folks. We were pleased to serve 85 meals with the assistance of 22 volunteers last Tuesday night.
~Marc

Many Needs

When the weather gets really cold, like it was last Tuesday night, I know there will be a lot of needs. One lady gave Paul an electric bill for over $600.00. That pretty overwhelming for a small minister likes ours but it is really overwhelming to her since she could be without heat soon. Another needed kerosene and someone else needed gas for their vehicle so they could travel to Columbia where they had a job. Most of these needs are taken care of in the last hour before leaving. It can get a little dicey when there are so many people trying to talk to one person. We can not meet every need but we try.

We served 45 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. The numbers are usually down when it is really cold. I expect that many find a warm place early and just stay put.
~Marc